Love, Laughter, and Lesbian Bars: A Blind Date Story That’ll Make You Smile
Ever wondered what happens when two strangers meet for a blind date in a lesbian bar? Spoiler alert: it’s a recipe for connection, laughter, and maybe even a kiss—all while keeping the bartenders happy. But here’s where it gets controversial: can a long-distance spark ever turn into something more? Let’s dive into Jenny and Sara’s story and find out.
Jenny on Sara
When asked what she was hoping for, Jenny admitted, ‘I was looking for a new adventure with someone fun and like-minded.’ And it seems she found just that. Her first impression of Sara? ‘Gorgeous and easy to talk to.’ The conversation flowed effortlessly, covering everything from travel and art to their shared love for Married at First Sight—with a playful critique that the next series needs a better-matched lesbian couple. And this is the part most people miss: even the most confident daters can cringe at a selfie attempt, as both Jenny and Sara hilariously discovered.
Sara’s table manners passed the ultimate test: disposing of chewed olive stones without inducing the ‘ick.’ But what truly stood out to Jenny was Sara’s intelligence and conversational prowess. ‘She’s bright, interesting, and gorgeous,’ Jenny gushed. When asked if she’d introduce Sara to her friends, Jenny didn’t hesitate: ‘Definitely. She’s likable and kind—it’d be hard not to get along with her.’
The date didn’t end at dinner. They headed to a queer clubhouse and later danced the night away at Dalston Superstore until 2 a.m. And yes, they kissed. ‘I really appreciated that the date was in a lesbian bar,’ Jenny shared. ‘It made kissing Sara feel safe and carefree.’ If there’s one thing Jenny would change? ‘We should’ve eaten more!’ She gave the evening a perfect 10 and admitted, ‘If we lived in the same city, Sara would definitely be a big part of my life.’
Sara on Jenny
Sara’s hopes for the date were equally charming: ‘An interesting “so how did you two meet” story—and to not get publicly rejected.’ Her first impression of Jenny? ‘Super-smiley! We launched straight into easy chatting, and she’d already ordered the wine—a great sign.’ Their conversation was just as lively, covering the decline of UK nightlife, desert island survival, and the need for more gay girl blind dates.
The most awkward moment? When Sara complained about traveling from south London, only to learn Jenny had come all the way from Leeds. But Sara’s table manners were impeccable—though she admitted to indulging in McDonald’s afterward. What stood out most about Jenny? ‘She was so fun and up for making the most of our free night out.’ Sara would definitely introduce Jenny to her friends and summed her up in three words: ‘Loves Robbie Williams.’
The evening ended on a high note, with both agreeing to a 9 out of 10—though Sara later reflected, ‘There’s no reason not to give Jenny a perfect 10.’ And the kiss? ‘We couldn’t let the bartenders down,’ Sara quipped. She’d love to see Jenny’s drag show someday, but like Jenny, she acknowledged the challenges of long-distance relationships.
About Blind Date
For those curious, Blind Date is a weekly dating column where two strangers are paired up for dinner and drinks, then share their experiences with us. It’s been running since 2009, with stories ranging from weddings to lost knickers. Here’s how it works: we ask about your age, location, occupation, hobbies, and the type of person you’re looking to meet. While you can’t choose your match, the more you share, the better the pairing. We’ll take your photo (don’t worry, we’ll pick the nicest one), and only your first name, job, and age will appear. Be honest but respectful—your answers will be read by your date and a large audience.
Controversial Question: Can Long-Distance Sparks Ever Turn Into Love?
Jenny and Sara’s story leaves us with a lingering question: can a connection as strong as theirs overcome the hurdles of distance? Or is it better to cherish these moments as fleeting adventures? Let us know your thoughts in the comments—do long-distance relationships stand a chance, or are they destined to fizzle out?
If you’re feeling inspired, why not take a chance on your own blind date? Email blind.date@theguardian.com and who knows? You might just find your own 10 out of 10.
